Voice Dalogue- Inner Child – Inner Parent

Often you will tap into your Inner Child, and get to the root of many of life’s problems, as beneath the layers of hidden emotions, one finds an intuitive and creative voice.  It is of great importance for the Inner Parent to be vigilant at all times, and show respect and sensitivity to the Inner Child.

Voice Dialogue is a powerful transformational and therapeutic tool, used to remodel relationships and personal issues. Voice Dialogue taps in directly with the selves or sub-personalities of our psyche to create lasting change.

Drs. Hal and Sidra Stone’s work – Voice Dialogue, Relationship, and the Psychology of Selves – was initially developed in 1972 and has continued to evolve over the past 37 years. It has been used by individuals for their own personal growth and by professionals in the fields of psychotherapy, counseling, personal coaching, business and organizational consulting. Their psycho-spiritual approach to consciousness and transformation includes an in-depth study of the many selves or subpersonalities that make up the psyche, as well as work with dreams, archetypal bonding patterns, and body energy fields.

This has taken the whole field of psychology, self development and understanding relationships to a whole new level. The personality is actually a collection of sub-personalities

… with its own identity and individuality.

‘INNER CHILD/INNER PARENT WORKSHOP’ – Open Neural Pathways, Tap into the Creative Part of Your Mind, and Heal Your Inner Child by Healing Your Inner Parent First. Discover the connection with the Inner Matriarch and Inner Patriarch.

When We First Heal Our Relationship with Our Inner Child, this Healing is Making Ourselves Whole. Healing Our Inner Child is also a Major Part of Healing All Other Relationships.  In order to heal our Inner Child, our Inner Parent needs to show great sensitivity and compassion.
Such an Insightfully Delightful and Creative Way to Get In Touch with the Inner Self, the Hidden Parts of Ourselves to Discover the Deep Wisdom or Our Other Half.

I am learning to feel and express my emotions. Are you? If not, why not?

Ask yourself these questions:-

* Are you in a close relationship?
* Would you like to be in an open, loving relationship, with yourself & others? * Do you want to learn the secret to leading a happier more satisfying life?

OR

* Are you in a dysfunctional relationship?
* Have you ever been in a dysfunctional relationship?
* Do you continue to attract dysfunctional relationships time and time again.
* You can now learn to know ‘how to form healthy, loving, respectful relationships’.
* You can also learn to love yourself, the type of love that is unconditional – no judgement – no shame.
* You can have a happy childhood at any age.

We can change our behavior patterns, clear our emotional process, and heal the wounds we are not even aware that we have, through healing our inner child.

Linear time doesn’t apply when we work with our unconscious. We can go back and forth in the blink of an eye.

By releasing the unconscious negative emotions like grief, sorrow, sadness, anger, frustration, fear, conflict,  and the pain from those places that exist within us, a new found freedom can emerge, where we are in control, running our own lives, and not dictated to by the wounded child within. The Inner Parent can heal the Inner  Child at any age.

Imagine a child that is neglected - receives very little love and nurturing, is left alone a lot of the time, it not interacted with much, (this could also mean, left to it’s own devices while the parent/carer is busy doing their own thing close by). The child may grow up, and find it difficult to express, and may not know how to love, wants to hide, and may even be more comfortable by themselves, because this inner child has lost trust, which is a basic issue. Disconnection is a major issue here for the inner child, as it has learnt to depend on itself, and may feel uncomfortable in the presence of others for too long a period.

What about the child who is fearful of being left, clingy, only feels safe while ‘mother’ is within sight, is overly criticized for wanting what it wants, now, throwing temper tantrums and viewed as spoiled. This is just over exaggerated fear. A feeling of insecurity, not trusting anymore.

Imagine a child still in the womb, who has been abandoned by the father, who himself may have been abandoned as a little boy by his father.

What about a child, left home alone, because the parents were kept busy working to put food on the table, and keep a roof over their heads. Maybe there could have even been a short time lag between one parent leaving for work and another returning home. The child could have also been placed in the care of someone who was abusive. Then there is divorce, adoption. What about the discounted child – the part ignored, treated as though it did not exist, feels invisible, doesn’t believe in itself.

The inner child remembers – it is all locked deep inside, only to surface years down the track, to cause pain and insecurity. The big need here is lots and lots of love.

To Heal Your Inner Child, you must First heal your Inner Parent.  Make sure the Inner Child knows that it is safe, and that you, the Inner Parent, are now there to protect the Inner Child, then, using the same process, work through your life to heal all the other selves that came in to protect you throughout your life.

REMEMBER – the core relationship we have with ourselves, was formed in early childhood. We have been living our lives reacting to any wounds we may have suffered at that time. Also remember – our caregivers,  Parents may have been operating within dysfunctional intellectual programming, with wounds of their own, and their caregivers, and so on and so on.
So now it is time to break that pattern.

By healing yourself, your sever the dysfunction from the past and also the future.

olga

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